Being single at 43 is both a boon and a bane. Let me tell you why……
Most often friends, colleagues and acquiantances fly to me when they need a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, a helping hand to an errand, a company in case an emergency arises, I am an angel anytime, anywhere. Even when I was sick and had my chemotherapy, friends still wish to talk so they can reveal their innermost fears in life because I am always available.
That is not the case in some circumstances though. I hear people who know me and those who claim they know me drawing controversial conclusions why I still remain unattached at this stage. They think I am idealistic, monastic, man hater, gold digger, a lesbian, blah, blah, blah…I must admit, I dont laugh these assessment all the time especially the last one but what can I do? I simply can’t change my circumstance to please others.
So I just shrug my shoulders of all the wild accusations and wish I were somewhere else where people don’t mind what state of life I am in. I don’t think there’s something wrong with the male species if they don’t find me worth taking because I don’t see anything wrong with me not choosing anyone of them even up to this age.
Of course I long for a partner as there are some days and some nights that I really feel lonely because I am alone but then I think of a wife and a mother, or a husband and a father who is equally lonely as I am because of an unfaithful partner. I think that puts me in a better position. I still wish of a possible partner. I swear, I still do. I am done away with a frog turning into a prince story but I pray my prince won’t turn into a frog! I earnestly pray for a partner who is stronger than me. Someone who knows how to laugh amidst great srtifes in life. Someone who accepts my ailment, someone who knows how to weep hard but stays tough whenever I go ahead. Someone who loves me like I am the only one but who is ready to love another one when I am already gone.
The best part of being single at 43 is you don’t give up dreaming and dreaming
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I am an educator at the same time a constant learner of life, a breast cancer survivor and a happy child of God.
Blogwalking…Nice blog. keep it up. I’ll be back soon.
pwde po mgamot ng mga prutas at gulay ang may berast poblem na nde xa da2an sa radiation or chemotherapy?
pwde po mgamot ng mga prutas at gulay ang may berast poblem na nde xa da2an sa radiation or chemotherapy?
pwde po mgamot ng mga prutas at gulay ang may berast poblem na nde xa da2an sa radiation or chemotherapy?
i’m a stage 2b cervical cancer patient, i already underwent radiation & chemotheraphy sessions currently raising fund for brachytherapy. prior to chemo & radiation my tumor’s size is 7.8cm after the treatment it’s size was reduced to 3cm. I’m positive i will be completely healed after brachytherapy. I believe we can combat & eliminate the cancer cells through faith in the Lord,prayers, positive outlook, happy disposition, proper treatment & an open mind. Our path is not easy. But we have to be strong & we must not lose hope. I’m not a religious person but i do pray & i know that we’re not alone because our God is with us. Shine! Smile! Be happy! God loves us! keep praying!
Are you givint lemongrass a try? Most importantly, never fail to give her love and support. Pray, pray, pray.. God bless you
My wife breast CA has spread to the brain and I am looking any meds that can cure it as doctor take away our hope. would the lemongrass address it though what my wife has right now is more than brain cancer?
oh…i have sumting to share about that lemon grass,we’re going to make a candy from it to relieve or as a cough remedy…
Hello Brandy & Clair
take extra care always. God bless us
Hi Bran,
Take care always…
hello miss highspirit! how was your christmas? 2010 is fast approaching and let me greet you a bountiful NEW YEAR. i hope and pray that Lord will give you all the blessings you deserve. God bless! 
Wow! we had lot of those in our community…
are there no new news about lemongrass and and cancer? this has been the same rehashed research for ther last many years, are there no new reaserch findings about lemon grass?wats the side effects? nobody seem to have said that!
More information about lemon grass and malunggay etc so check this site next week. God bless us all.
hi every body. we have a lot of lemon grass. please e-mail me if you need a bunch. may God, Christ Jesus, the One True Living God Most High. Amen.
Hi, Thank you for the information about lemon grass. Pwede ko ba magamit to? I’am a muscular dystrophy patient…my case i a rare case to and i’m researching a medicine to improve and could heal me. Could please assist me I guess your God send. I’m inspired by your faith I too believe that God who made our body knows how to heal us. I’m still hoping for my cure… Mind you I’m inspired by you…God Bless you.
hello…….highspirit..how are you? hope everything is fine.. i was diagnosed with breast ca last june 21, 2008. thanks to god…… i’m already 8 months surviving….
god bless us all….
hi! where is kahayag center in cebu?thanks
For Kurt: God is good! This disease may affect us physically but dont let it kill your spirit. YOU are in my prayers. Take care. I eat veggies daily, particularly malunggay with lemon grass. Take care.
